Your hopes and dreams seem right
in front of you... so embrace them. It's just great and everything in the
garden is lovely.
But after a while the prince
begins to look a little different ...hummmm you didn't really notice that
before. It was all happy.
I am using a couple of examples
here but your "prince" could be anything that looks and sounds really
great (at first) but then it begins to change. You make excuses at first and
then of course the "prince" blames you. Maybe it's a great business
deal. Some friends of mine in Orlando met a couple who had a great business
going. They even had a nice office. They were charming, polite and certainly
seemed to know what they were doing.
So my friends invested a little
and got a good return. So they invested more and got a return, so then they
invested their whole savings- and guess what? That's right, the couple with the
business disappeared along with the office and the money. The prince became a
frog (a toad in this case). Thanks to God, the final chapter says
"Jesus."
Maybe it's a church that promised
you heaven and earth. Great worship.
Ministry opportunities (they said). You are going to be propelled into a great
anointing by joining this showcase of "what God is doing." This is where it's happening, you are made so
welcome. But after a while it seems like they aren't too interested in what you
have to offer (except your tithe maybe).
The prince begins to turn into a frog.
I have a good friend in
Australia. He had a great job with a great big bank and had great money coming
in which he gave liberally to his bustling church. He had attention. A while
later some things happened when he stood up for righteousness in his high
paying job so they fired him. So he didn't have the money he had before. He
thought he would get some counseling and support from the prince (church) but
you know what? He could not get an appointment with the pastor. My, that frog manifested quickly.
Thank the Lord
There are many great churches
that care about you and want you to prosper and want your ministry gifts and
callings to be operating. They want you to fire on 8 cylinders instead of two.
They genuinely love you, even when you mess up. You don't put your children out
of the house when they don't behave perfectly do you? Be careful of what you attach yourself to.
You are yoked to Him and, "His yoke is easy and His burden is light and
delightful." If you are under His
yoke you will be in the right place
One time when I was at a large
conference, a well-known minister got hold me and kinda pushed me into a room where there was lady sitting
crying. "Pray for her," he said and went out and closed the door. So
I was left with this poor lady and I think there was another lady there too. I
wasn't sure what was going on with the women but I just started praying.
"Oh," I said, "You married a prince that turned into a
frog." Well she just burst forth in
sobs and I felt terrible, but I didn't have any choice then but to press on. I
prayed off DISAPPOINTMENT - that's the biggest thing, then regret, rejection,
self-accusation etc.
She began to change as these
things lifted off her. "Then I said to her, "Oh and God said you are
going to have your furniture back." I wasn't sure what I was talking about but she cried
again when I mentioned her furniture but
then started to laugh. She left back the building back in faith, to move on
with her life.
She turned out to be a well-known
minister's wife. Her husband had been killed in an accident. That was hard
enough but a while later she met a "prince." He was a very good looking, charismatic
Christian. I mean charismatic in the way
of personality not belief system. She
was so excited -- but after a while he began to change and began to be verbally
abusive. He told her it was her fault
because of things she did and didn't do that weren't exactly how he liked. Then
finally he became physically abusive so she left one night and was now at my
friend's conference. She left the house with all her lovely furniture still
there and he would not let her back again.
The night I prayed for her she
was sleeping on the floor in a room in a friend's apartment with no
furniture. Well of course I didn't know
that, but God gave her word that she would have it back. She knew that was God
because she didn't even know me, nor I her.
What do you do?
So what do you do when your
Prince turns into a frog? If there's
anything legal involved make sure you get your ducks in a row. Get good advice from
people who know what they are talking about.
Spiritually and emotionally you have to forgive yourself first and stop
kicking yourself. Yes maybe you should have seen it coming, maybe there were
things you just chose to ignore, even things that are obvious now that you
think about it. But it's gone now, so
forgive yourself for maybe some stupidity on your part or maybe you just were
exceedingly gracious and kept forgiving.
You should forgive but at the
same time, sometimes you have to do something before the roof falls in on you.
Maybe there are things that you should take a look at. For example; why you
wanted to embrace the prince when you maybe did have a little "check"
in your spirit? But for now, concentrate
on getting out of the debris to a clear place then you can sort out those
things. Don't try and analyze everything while you are on an emotional roller
coaster.
I've been talking about a woman but
this happens to men too. I met a minister who married a lovely girl who had a
great voice, besides being very attractive. He thought she would be a great
asset to his ministry. She turned out to be the devil in disguise and about
destroyed his relationship with his family and also got hold of a bunch of his
savings before she "took off with the silver" as the saying
goes. Was that Jezebel? Probably
not. I am writing some things about
Jezebel that you probably haven't heard yet).
More like chameleon spirit. A chameleon spirit makes people able to
disguise their true colors. And maybe
enchantment came on him.
The Thing is Though WHAT DO YOU DO NOW?
First of all, forgive yourself as
I said, and forgive anyone else involved. You need to step clear of the debris
in order to see clearly. Maybe there is someone in a different area you could
stay with for a couple for weeks- That's not a necessity, it just can help. You
can always go back to clear up the debris.
Second, get someone to pray for
you for spirit of disappointment. It kinda hangs on you from behind and makes
you keep thinking about it. You can only aim at what you can see. So you have to see what God sees for you and
guess what He sees a FUTURE. It's about how to see what God sees for you. Bad
things can happen but it's not the end: the last chapter says JESUS. I have an
article about Jesus as the Rescuer.
Pray off all the rejection, and
self-condemnation, distrust etc. and then go on. See what God sees for you
You may have tripped over a rock,
maybe you rolled down a hill, but it's not over, it's not the end. A good
friend of mine who has been in the ministry for about 80 years says, "You
can go out on a knockout, or you can get up and come in on a knockout." Make a decision, not according to how you
feel but according to what you believe about Jesus. He has you in the palm of His hand but He
will walk you out, or walk you in but He WILL NOT leave you. He has plans.
As David said in Psalm 139. "Whither shall I flee from you Spirit, or
whither shall I flee from your Presence?.....If I take the wings of the morning
or dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea.....even there your hand will lead
me, and your right hand will hold me....... the darkness cannot hide from
you." He knows every breath you take, His
tenderness is eternal, "His love has no limits, His grace has no measure,
His power has no boundaries known unto men."
There is great change taking
place everywhere and oh, I got a strong word yesterday when we rang bells at
the church I was at in Social Circle GA.
He is opening doors and opening
gates. Where you've been locked in the
paddock - the gates are open. I saw so many doors and gates opening in every
direction I looked.
Look up not down, look out not
down. You are already seated in the
heavenly places with Christ. You were meant to fly and you will. Remember Jesus has the last word. It doesn't
matter what the doctor says, it doesn't matter what your circumstances say - He
has the last word. He is the Amen. "All the promises of God in Him, are yes and amen to the
glory of God." (2 Cor 1:20)
Kathie Walters
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