I had a "stunning"
experience one time. God really used it to point out something to me. I had
been away for a couple of days, visiting and praying with a close friend of
mine who lives in Gainesville, My friends there had a great ministry raising up
churches on the campuses of the U.S. and in many other nations. They had discipled
and raised up thousands of young people, trained to take the Gospel to the
nations.
My teenage daughter, Faith, had
stayed home with a girlfriend to take care of our house and pets. Like any
other parent, I had given many instructions about the care of the house, yard,
animals, and pool. Faith is very sensible and capable, so I didn't worry about
anything. I had called a few times and everything was fine. (Note Faith is a parent herself now).
Faith's Hair
Returning home, I was not
prepared for the shock that was awaiting me.
As I turned the car into our driveway, the dogs came running to meet me as
they usually did. I got out of the car and petted them, taking a second look at
Faith's Chow, Koa. He was usually a pretty, beige color, but his coat had
turned to a shade of pink, at least down his back and tail. I wondered if he
had fallen into a strawberry patch!
I entered the house, looking
forward to seeing Faith, who being a home-schooler, was sure to be in the
house. I went inside and began to ascend the stairs. At the top of the stairs
was Faith. She greeted me, smiling demurely. I returned her smile, but my smile
faded very quickly. Suddenly, I saw it! A bright pink, wide streak down one
side of her pretty blond hair! Not a pale hint of color, but a peppermint pink!
"Faith, what has happened to
you?" I cried. I thought there must have been some terrible mishap. She
was joined by Haley, my then secretary's daughter. Haley was grinning from ear
to ear. Her dark hair was now deep green on one side and blue on the other! I
freaked out! Faith laughed at my reaction - big mistake. I ranted and raved a
while and she agreed to wash the pink out (dog too). A short while later, as I
looked at her, I thought it didn't really look so bad. I let her keep it for a
few days. I began to think about all this later and about my visit with Rose.
While I had been with my friends
in Gainesville, another friend had called to tell her about a book he had
recently read. It was offering the reader reasons as to why we are not in full
scale revival. Leaders who had made mistakes and had gotten off track here and
there by over-emphasizing various truths were named as being a major part of
the cause for our lack. My friends had been mentioned in this book, along with
other people that I knew well. I understand that the writer was concerned about
the Body of Christ, but still I couldn't stop weeping whenever I thought about
the "policeman" trying to get us all straight.
I couldn't stop thinking about
Faith's hair, and my reaction to it. Her hair had gotten my attention and so my
mind had to deal with what I saw. It
took my attention away from all the things she had done over that weekend. It
had been a hard job to look after the pool, because our area had been badly
affected by floods and it was full of muddy water.
God's Grace and Patience
Our house is a big house to
clean, but it was neat and tidy. We have three phone lines with people calling
all of the time. She had taken care of everyone. Our dog had been hit by a car a
few days previously and needed a lot of attention. He was fine.
Not only had my things been well
taken care of, but a family in her church had lost everything they owned in the
flood. What was left of their house was under two inches of mud, and she had
been over to help them clean. She had brought home three large bags of washing
to do for them. She took care of the office. I had missed it all because of the
pink hair. We can be so blind. Thank God for His endless grace and patience.
I then thought of the various
books that had been written about the mistakes my friends and many other
ministries had made at one time or another. They were obvious. Like the pink
hair, most people could have seen them right away. But I thought, "What
about all the thousands of young people who were saved and filled with the
Spirit through their ministry on the campuses of America and many other
nations? What about the thousands of kids who were dedicated to the call of God
on their lives?" Thousands of young people received a very real sense of
destiny in their lives because of the ministry and revelation of my friends who
had given their lives for the Gospel. I wondered how it was that none of this
was mentioned in these books. Maybe my daughter's hair is over-simplifying it,
but it's the same principle to me.
Jesus, the Great Shepherd
When my friend, Rose told me
about a very generous gift that had been given them for their China outreach, I
felt so blessed myself. I wanted to write to the often maligned faith teacher
that had given it and tell him, "You blessed me because you blessed my
friends." When I heard about the negative things that were said in the
book, I had a great desire to write to the author and say, "You hurt me
because you hurt my friends." I don't know of a ministry that has been
around for any length of time that hasn't goofed at some point, said some dumb
things from time to time, or headed off in a wrong direction occasionally. But,
Jesus is the Great Shepherd; He will shepherd His sheep. He knows what He is
doing.
It is the Holy Spirit who moves
on God's people to convict and change. There
is one thing more miserable than people trying to change themselves, and that
is when we try to change each other. I can point out what is wrong with you,
but I don't have the power to change it.
When the Holy Spirit convicts, He does have the power to change it. Big difference!
Next time you are tempted to see
only the obvious mistake in someone, say to yourself, "Pink hair." Maybe
it will remind you that there are many wonderful things you have forgotten
regarding that person or ministry. Jesus hasn't forgotten. He loves them so
very much! We would put our hands over our mouths like Job, when God asked us,
"Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth?"
(Job.38:4), or, "Were you there when I brought forth My Son from the
grave? Were you there when I brought forth the first fruits of THE
CHURCH?"
Kathie Walters
From Kathie's book The Spirit of False Judgment available from Identity Network.
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