Kings -
Learning To Fly In 2010
By John Garfield
Leaving the nest
The
implication of learning to fly is leaving the nest. Some of us birds do it
naturally, others wait until the nest is thorned by mother, and a few just get
thrown out by God himself! I'm suggesting that maturity is a process and what
was once warm and pastoral and loving and comfortable can become somewhat
perverse if we don't graduate. What was once good and healing and from the
heart of God can be turned into an idol!
He
broke into pieces the bronze snake Moses had made, for up to that time the Israelites
had been burning incense to it. (It was called Nehushtan.) 2 Kings 18:4
Imagine
a child who nurses until the age of ten; a teenager who never moves out of the
house; a college graduate who never gets a job.
What it feels like
The
emotion of moving into marketplace ministry and the accompanying "Kingly"
mentality is an out of the boat"experience for all of us. Here is what it feels like…
from a good friend in another state in response to the last newsletter, From
Spiritual Covering to Practical Mentoring.
"Yes,
I think this is where we have now settled our hearts, after a frustrating time
of wondering why our pastor didn't even acknowledge what we were trying to do
in the "marketplace ministry."
It is still disappointing, though, to feel a total lack of "pastoring"
in our church, no matter what we do for a living. But, yeah, we have ceased struggling for
affirmation or understanding within the church.
Does that sound like sour grapes?"
We
could try to portray these feelings in terms of the shortcomings of the pastor
involved, but I think we would be missing the real point.
I
wouldn't assume the pastor has done anything wrong. He may well be feeling
abandoned himself because his paradigm may be that the church is the only
mountain. Pastors will value Kings functioning in a different mountain more in
the future as we recognize the role of marketplace ministry in the Kingdom.
We
shouldn't impose expectations on our pastor that Jesus wants to fulfill
Himself. You see the goal for all of us is to eventually mature from the
healthy incubator of first love discipleship to relating directly to the Lord
for ourselves taking initiative, becoming entrepreneurial, stepping into new
levels of creativity and ministry… moving from milk to meat (Heb 5:13-14) is a good thing!
Seeing the flock mature is really the goal of every pastor. It's a very natural
progression after we've been faithful in that which is another man's to be
given that which is our own. It's more responsibility and it "feels"
more alone... out on a limb. God simply
won't allow us to make pastors choose our destiny. We have to make that
decision ourselves.
Choosing your destiny
It's
much easier to stay within the vision of a local church, play a role in
building that church, and stay under the pastor's covering. It's even healthy…
unless you've been equipped and called into a different mountain …and
the Holy Spirit is personally driving you crazy. Pastors, apostles, prophets
and churches are very good things until you begin to hold them in a role Jesus
wants to occupy himself. All the complaining about authority issues really
resides right between our ears some are just being invited into a place of growing
up. You can turn the invitation down and stay where you are. There is nothing
wrong with building a local church. Equipping the saints is a very legitimate
calling close to God's heart. Some will be perfectly happy; others called to a
different mountain may have a sense of forfeiting some of their personal
destiny.
Owning the challenge
Can
you see that it's not necessarily a problem in the church? Leaving one church
for another, changing the church, or abandoning the church is not necessarily a
solution? Sometimes in the course of growing up, we long for the wrong thing
and the adjustment needed is in the mirror.
The prophets prophesy lies,
the priests rule by their own authority, and my people love it this way. But
what will you do in the end? Jer
5:31
For the time will come when
men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires,
they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their
itching ears want to hear. 2 Tim 4:3
NIV
The Kingdom is within you
Becoming
a King and extending the
The
highlight of 2009 for me was meeting David Tinney and Poul Dalgaard and seeing
the great things God is doing in
I
want to suggest that the Lord is knocking on your door and inviting you into
the next level. I agree, it's scary and risky. But see if you can't hear that
invitation from Jesus himself. And after having heard it from Him, see if the
risk doesn't melt away. See if you can believe that God values the desire of
your heart. Your dream can come true - if you will take the initiative to make
it happen.
No one will be able to stand
up against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be
with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you. Josh 1:5 NIV
Be strong and courageous. Do
not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with
you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." Deut 31:6 KJV
I took you from the ends of
the earth, from its farthest corners I called you. I said, 'You are my
servant'; I have chosen you and have not rejected you. 10 So do not fear, for I am with you; do not
be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will
uphold you with my righteous right hand. 11 "All who rage against you will
surely be ashamed and disgraced; those who oppose you will be as nothing and
perish. 12 Though you search for your
enemies, you will not find them. Those who wage war against you will be as
nothing at all. 13 For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right
hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. Isa 41:9-13 NIV
Need practical
encouragement?
The
best source is another King in the same mountain. Here's a recipe for starting
a small group with other Kingdom builders. God's doing the same thing in many
and you'll find they already speak your language. Start Your Own Group. Take
your dream with you and get some help with it... Write Your Business Plan.
Learn to fly in 2010...
but those who hope in the
Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will
run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isa 40:29 NIV
who satisfies your desires
with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's. Ps 103:5 NIV
We're
Dancing,
John
Garfield