The Words of My Mouth by Chase Butler
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By Chase Butler
There is a gas station I stop at periodically on my way home where a very angry man works. I'll refer to him as Angry Ninja because in conversation he once told me he practices martial arts. Angry Ninja towers over me and is always wearing a hip, knit beanie. If you walked in right now he would tell you his grievances with little introduction. You've met these people before. They're always prepared, ready to unpack today's dose of "everything sucks" at the first opportunity. Always something different, always negative.
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There is a gas station I stop at periodically on my way home where a very angry man works. I'll refer to him as Angry Ninja because in conversation he once told me he practices martial arts. Angry Ninja towers over me and is always wearing a hip, knit beanie. If you walked in right now he would tell you his grievances with little introduction.
You've met these people before. They're always prepared, ready to unpack today's dose of "everything sucks" at the first opportunity. Always something different, always negative.
One time the story was about the drink machine being broken and rude people ignoring the sign and messing it up more. Another time was about playing video games so he wouldn't have to be violent in reality. Another time it was something about a crazy friend. I kid you not, this is every time I go.
He's actually pretty nice to me, and I feel bad for him. In his mind the universe is always working against him. Sadly, I think he's totally unaware of how consistent his negative narrative is. It's his default mode. It can be my default mode.
Here's the narrative I think we are prone to:
He got me thinking. What is the counter-narrative I need to be telling? I don't think confronting Angry Ninja, or anyone for that matter, is the wisest option. But my words matter. My attitude matters. My example is a small influence.
The counter-narrative is full of gratitude, praise, encouragement, optimism, grace, and love. It redeems a terrible day and refreshes a weary soul. "A honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones," as Proverbs beautifully describes it.
I'm determined to break my default mode. To replace grumbling and complaining with gracious words of life.
Chase Butler
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There seems to be a recurring topic that continues to come up in my life—the balance between contentment and goals. Do I appreciate what I have, and am I working towards something meaningful that forces me to grow? An either/or approach never works. On one hand, you lend yourself to apathy and stagnation. On the other, you live under the tyranny of nothing ever being enough, endless striving that costs you something you never intended. I don't pretend to have this figured out. Every once in a while, I sense the alignment between the two within myself, but it's normally a fleeting moment followed by the pendulum tipping back towards one side.
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There are moments when I long for an answer, clarity, inspiration, relief, or hope and receive nothing. Even in earnest seeking, eager anticipation, a proper posture, an open heart, a willing spirit—nothing. Then there are moments when I receive an answer, clarity, inspiration, relief, and hope when I least expect it. Not seeking, not anticipating, yet a glimpse is given. So what to conclude?
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If the idea of selling everything and living out of a backpack on the road sounds like a nightmare instead of a grand adventure, this post might not be for you. If challenging the status quo and questioning societal norms in the pursuit of a full and satisfying life sounds intriguing, then let's continue. The beauty of friendship is that conversations tend to draw out aspects of yourself that otherwise would have been left untouched and dormant, or at the very least overlooked or ignored.